DM: You and Nkosi have four kids right? How has motherhood changed you?

LB: Yes… It’s taught me to believe in self-directed learning. I try to let them dictate their own path. It’s hard, you know you put them in school, they were only in public school for a year but I found that they were picking up these habits and ideas that were forcing them to think certain ways. I had to pull them out of the elementary school they were in and put them in an independent school and it was so much better for them.

DM: Are they musical as well?

LB: It’s funny because my parents were musicians, but of the three of us I was the only one to really pursue that, but my kids… oh definitely. I brought the kids to band rehearsal—I have a dope band – they’re called Dark Matter. So when we finished my kids just jumped in there. One of my sons jumped on the drums and started playing this incredible beat and my younger son grabbed the mic and started singing this dope song about midnight… It was so good – he must’ve made it up before or something but I know I hadn’t picked up on it before. They are so fearless and innocent and pure. Everything they do is just beautiful to me. My youngest, he’s three, he has this thing right now where we will be in the most inappropriate places and he will say his favorite word—which is Booty. We were out to dinner and he just grins and goes Boooooty.

DM: (laughing) So it goes without saying that if they want to go into music you will support them?

LB: Yes I will support them in whatever they want to be.

DM: I wanted to ask you what was up with the insect names for you and the rest of the group and why did you decide to stick with Ladybug Mecca, I noticed Butterfly changed it up to Cherrywine for his solo project?

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